I Thought He Was My Friend: How An Internet Predator Tricked A Teen

4/28/2006

Overview
Nicole was 12 when she met an online predator who police say lured her off the Internet and into a real-world trap where he molested her.

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Nicole was just 12 years old in the summer of 2004 when she started chatting online with a 27-year-old man who called himself "Michael." The pair talked multiple times a day on the computer for weeks, until Michael thought it was time for them to meet in person.

Nicole managed to keep her dangerous new "friend" a secret from her mother ; it was a terrifying secret that Nicole says nearly cost her her life. Lucky for Nicole, her mother wasn't fooled long.

 

He made me feel good about myself. And like, wow, this guy can like lift me up on like my darkest days or something. And then him like talking to you like that makes you feel like you've known him for like ever.
In Nicole's Own Words
Overview
Nicole had always been close to her mother and sisters, but she kept her online relationship a secret from them.

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Well, I had an Internet profile  I had like, I think seven, six pictures of me in a yellow bikini at our friend's pool party. It wasn't anything like provocative or anything. But my profile had like Coral Springs, Florida, and then I had like my hobbies, which was soccer, dancing, talking on the phone, hanging out with friends at the mall.

It was around the time when me and my dad started fighting and it was easier for me to talk to people that didn't even know me than it was with my real friends.

I guess that's how people started IM-ing me or something. I was bored and there wasn't anything else to do. And like, none of my friends were online, so I was like talking to myself. Which is pretty easy to do. I mean, you add yourself to your buddy list and you can talk to yourself.

Some guy IMed me with the screen name of Armoni13Michael. And he's like hey, I'm looking for a friend, do you want to talk? And I'm like, yeah sure. And then he's like, yeah I viewed your profile, you look really, you look hot and everything. And I'm like um, okay. He's like, yeah, you should look at mine.

 I didn't want to be mean and tell him straight out he's ugly. So I'm like, you're cute I guess . He said, he's tall, he's like ripped, and tan, and he had black hair, and that he's 27 years old. He like, he wanted to know like my age, and like what school I went to. I told him I was fifteen .I felt like since I was twelve he wouldn't talk to me or something. And I was looking for someone to talk to over the computer.

Hiding The Secret

It was just nerve wracking at the same time because I mean you're talking to somebody you don't even know. For all you know they could be a mass murderer or something, or a computer hacker. We talked at least four or five, six times a day. And, like, I don't know, we were talking like four or five weeks or something.

He kept telling me like how I'm so pretty and everything and I'm like, ok, and it was weird, because he told me he loved me the third week we started talking. And then like it just - it didn't seem right. And he just, he kept telling me he wants to meet me, he wants to meet me, and I'm like, alright, sure.

I'm just like don't do it, don't do it, don't do it. And then I'm like, you know, I kinda do want to meet him, you're like anxious to meet somebody, but you know it's wrong. And you know if your mother ever found out, she'd like, cut your head off. And like, she'll ground you for like ever. It made me feel special. I'm like wow I can have an older man figure in my life who acts like he likes me, who acts like he loves me. Why not continue going on.

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Overview View Larger Image View Larger Nicole was an A student who played in band. But when she hit hard times, she became vulnerable: He made me feel good about myself. And like, wow, this guy can like lift me up on like my darkest days or something. And then him like talking to you like that makes you feel like you've known him for like ever. Overview View Larger Image View Larger It seemed like he cared, and that like, he'd just try to understand what you were saying. Like a compassionate person, and just someone you can talk to. He can say stuff like, to make you just want to be attracted to him. And just, everything he said was like, just nice because he acted just like my friends and he'd blame my dad for all my problems, and he's all like it's not your fault you shouldn't be thinking like it's yours, it's your dad's fault. Overview " class="thickbox" rel="image-set"> View Larger Image View Larger Like when I'm on the computer, he won't be able to see me face to face, and he won't be able to hear my voice, and like, it's just words. And words I guess supposedly don't have like, they have meaning, but when you don't mean what you're saying they have no meaning if that makes any sense? And after every email or every time we ended a conversation he'd be like, "Goodnight, hon. Hope to see you soon." Nicole's Online Predator Is On The Run »
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